Grant's Baby Blessing and a Visit from Grandma and Grandpa

In the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints babies receive a special blessing, usually given by the baby's father, that happens during one of our sacrament meetings (the regular Sunday worship service). Grandma and Grandpa came to visit and we were able to do Grant's blessing while they were here. Seth gave Grant a wonderful, inspired blessing. It was a very special day.
Grant in his white blessing outfit.
The white blanket was knitted by Grant's Great Grandma.
I just love the little bow tie!

The rest of the week the kids had a great time with Grandma and Grandpa doing things like playing at the park and building a raised garden box!Grandma and Grandpa, we are so happy you came to visit. We had a great time!

Welcome Baby Grant!

At two weeks over due, our baby finally decided to make his entrance into this world. And he decided to do it with a bang.

Monday, May 3rd, I woke up from a nap at 1:40 in the afternoon with a very intense contraction. More contractions followed fast and furious. I called Seth in, who was luckily working from home that day, to time the contractions. They were lasting more than a minute and were less than two minutes apart. After timing a few contractions I realized I was having the urge to push. With difficulty we got into the car. I rode in the back seat on hands an knees as it was the only position I could tolerate. As we were driving it became clear to me that I would not be able to get out of the car once we got to the birth center. We pulled in to the parking lot and Seth ran inside to get help. In moments I was surrounded by about five midwives and a few minutes later, at 2:50 pm, delivered our 9 lb 11 oz baby boy in the back seat of our Subaru Outback. Labor took only one hour and ten minutes.

Baby Grant didn't breathe on his own for quite a while so he was transferred to the NICU. The doctor said that the trauma of the fast labor basically put him into shock. He had to have a breathing tube, an IV and about three monitors on him. The first concerns were the oxygen levels in his blood. When he fussed and cried, his blood oxygen levels would go down, which the doctor said were signs of trauma. There was also concern about how much oxygen he was getting when he was initially being resuscitated immediately after birth. Grant had an MRI. As we waited for the results, he had a very comforting Priesthood blessing. We were very relieved when the MRI results showed a healthy, normal brain. At about 48 hours, his blood oxygen levels were stable and he was able to have his breathing tubes removed.

The final concerns Grant had to overcome had to do with eating. When babies are eating enough it helps them avoid jaundice and other blood related issues. Grant had a disadvantage in that he was fed only by IV for the first day to make sure that blood was not pulled away from his vital organs to his stomach. As he was able to take more fluids by mouth they would turn down the amount of fluids he got through his IV. It was an exciting day when they were able to take the IV out altogether.

One of the more difficult things was having to be away from Kayla. We were blessed to be in a hospital that is very accommodating to families. Seth and I were able to stay in the hospital with Grant the whole time and Kayla was able to visit. We were also very blessed to have Grandma in town, staying at home with Kayla. Everyday she would bring Kayla to the hospital for lunch and dinner and it was comforting to have that time as a family. We were also very blessed that Grandma would bring us healthy good food everyday so that we didn't have to eat hospital cafeteria food.

On May 9, Mother's Day
, our doctor came to give us our discharge papers. We were able to take our little boy home. We spent a total of 6 days in the NICU.

We want to say thank you to family and friends for your prayers. Through this experience we saw so many little miracles and felt God's comforting touch. I know our Father in Heaven was watching over us and that He cares about our family and our little boy. I have a strong testimony of the healing power of Priesthood blessings. I know God hears and answers prayers. The week we spent in the NICU was one of the more difficult weeks of my life, but I am thankful for the experience because we were able to see God's hand in so many ways. I am so thankful to my Father in Heaven for everything He did to take care of our family.

41 weeks pregnantIn the NICU
Grant with all his monitors
First Family Photo
Daddy holding Grant, attached to several wires
Grant with Grandma
Kayla holding "Baby Brudder"
the nurses made this for our doorGetting oxygen tubes removed
Less wires, out of the incubator, a step closer to going home
First Bath
In the car seat to go home
home at last

Nesting and Too Much HGTV

We've lived in our house for about 9 months. The house was a pre-foreclosure and the first projects were the necessary ones like patching holes in the wall and painting the exterior (which I should probably post pictures of). Decorating projects were put on the back burner. For a long time I haven't felt like any of the rooms in our house were really "done." It has made it hard to really feel settled. Plus, I've never decorated a home before. I don't have a lot of confidence in my decorating skills. I second guess my choices. I want to find the right item at the right price. I watch HGTV and they do a room in a day or a week, but for me it takes months and a lot of window shopping for a room to take shape in my mind.

Maybe it is the nesting instinct but we have recently really gotten a move on and have finally finished a few projects. I finally feel like a few rooms are "done."

Baby Brother's Room
Before:
After:
The room was an interesting shade of purple/brown with a peach-y ceiling. The color we chose is a Benjamin Moore color called woodlawn blue. I was kind of opposed to doing a blue baby boy nursery, but we found this color when we were doing samples for our bathroom (pictures below) and it just seemed perfect. It is kind of a grey blue with a bit of green. I think it will transition well into an office or an older kid's bedroom or whatever this room ends up being used for, so I am happy with it.

I'm also very proud of how inexpensively we put this room together. Two items I have to brag about are the crib and changing table. A friend gave us this crib and then I found a matching changing table on craigslist.org for $15. They both needed to be refinished, which ended up costing us less than $20. So for less than $35 (and some luck and elbow grease) we got a matching crib/changing table set.

The turtle quilt on the wall was a gift from the mother of my friend who put on a baby shower for me. I've never met this woman and she made me a beautiful baby quilt. I was amazed. We are planning to get a glider/rocker for this corner, so I guess the room isn't 100% "done". Also, I might add a window valance or curtains or something. I haven't decided yet.

Downstairs Bathroom (or the "Powder Room")
Before:
In the process (choosing paint samples):
After:

I might add something on the wall over the toilet, like maybe a metal tea light holder?
In this bathroom we used a Benjamin Moore color called buxton blue, suggested by my fabulous sister-in-law.

Master Bedroom
Before:
After:
The biggest challenge in this room was the mattress. We actually had the new bed frame and the new comforter set months before the new mattress. We bought our old mattress for dirt cheap when we first got married. It was like sleeping on a rock and we both were sick of it. We shopped for months for just the right mattress at just the right price. We got close a few times to buying something but never could quite do it. Then this mattress came on sale at Costco. It was a mattress we had looked at before and had liked and the extra discount made it the perfect mattress for us. It has been so comfortable, especially in these last few months of pregnancy. And I love that our bedroom finally feels like a grown-up sanctuary (even when there are toys and books on the floor). We will probably replace the nightstands one day, and maybe I should add some accent pillows or something, but for now I am quite happy.

We have a few other projects that are still in the process.
The entryway:
The entryway is currently a kind of sad gray/lavender color. We are looking for just the right shade of yellow/beige. This one might take a while. But at least we now have a place to sit and take off your shoes when you walk in.

Kayla's Room:
The room started an unique shade of brown/orange with a sports wallpaper border along the top. This is the current state of the room. Just trying to find the right color.We also redid the closet. I wish we had a good before picture of this closet. It was the most dysfunctional closet set up I had seen. Finally we have some decent usable space in there. Plus, it is one of those customizable closet kits, so as Kayla grows (and her clothes get bigger) we can adjust the shelves around to whatever fits her clothes best.
I love that our house is finally starting to take shape. It has been a process but now that a few rooms have come together I'm really starting to enjoy it!

A Day In the Life of Kayla

We just had some fun videos of Kayla we wanted to share.

Kayla loves music. Especially when we are in the car, she is very particular about what "mu-guk" we listen to. And she loves the music to be "rewy youd" (really loud). Here she is singing A Dream is a Wish Your Heart Makes from Cinderella:


Here is Kayla exercising with her friends:


For Christmas Kayla got a game from Grandma called Hullabaloo. We play it several times a week. The moment I put it away she notices and asks "Where Hubababoo go?"


One of Kayla's favorite activities is putting together puzzles.













Here is Kayla, just being herself:

Live Crab

We have a store here called Central Market. We enjoy going there once in a while because not only do they have all the regular groceries, but they also have fun things like Asian import items that Seth remembers from his mission in Taiwan. Kayla's favorite thing about the store is the large fish tanks full of live crabs. As soon as we get near the store she says "cabs! cabs!" She loves to watch them climb over each other and reach their claws out of the tank trying to escape.

As we recently learned, the peak of the crab season is late December and January. So crab was on sale, plus we had 20% off coupon. So Seth and I looked at each other and said, why not? We researched online how to pick a good crab and cook it, then headed over to the store.
Now, I've never bought a live crab. I've had fresh lobster when we visit family in Maine, but someone else has always done the selecting and cooking. It was quite an experience when the guy pulled our selected crab out of the tank, slapped him upside down on the scale, legs a-wriggling, then wrapped him up in butcher paper and handed him over to us. Once he was wrapped up he didn't wriggle so much, but as soon as we got him home and unwrapped his legs were going again!

The lady at the seafood counter suggested that we put him in a sink full of warm water and let him die before transferring him to the boiling water because he would die and expel then we wouldn't have any of that in the boiling water while he cooked up, plus it is more humane than putting the live crab in the boiling water. So we did that and it seemed to work just fine. Our crab didn't expel anything so that part really didn't make much difference.

We cooked him up, cleaned him up and ate him up. He was delicious! And it was a fun at-home date night activity. A few posts ago I shared how I was enjoying more of my time in the kitchen by trying new recipes. The crab certainly fell into that category. Here are a few other recent dinners and treats that I am quite proud of:

Chicken Cordon Bleu

Cinnamon Swirl Bread


Spinach Lasagna
Blueberry Muffins